Sunday, April 3, 2011

The NCAA & Professional Amateurs.

Allow me to climb up on my soapbox...ahhh, it's nice up here, lots of fresh air. Okay, now it's time for my rant.

So last week, HBO's REAL Sports With Bryant Gumbel did a special on the state of college sports in America, basically continuing the debate on whether or not college athletes should be paid for playing; the focus was on football and basketball, because let's face it-those are the money makers for nearly every university. The NCAA says that amateur (aka: college) athletes cannot be paid to play (duh-that's the whole point of professional status, getting paid to play). But one of the big arguments is that the players are the ones who make the money for the school, and so they should be getting their "fair share" of the money. Here are my thoughts on it (insert angry voice).

First of all, I am a professional athlete; I get paid to go play racquetball (not much, but I do get paid by my sponsors, and I win money at the tournaments). I also played racquetball for The University of Alabama, helped them win two national championships, and those wins brought another level of recognition to the school. Not on the same level as the football, basketball, and gymnastics programs (the big moneymakers at UA), but in a "Look how awesome Alabama is, we win at literally everything" kind of way. I did not get any money to go play racquetball for UA, just to make that clear. I also didn't get any special recognition or help as a student at UA because of my "national champion" status. Let's just get all those facts out of the way, and build a little background for what I'm about to say: The NCAA student-athletes DO get compensation for playing a sport for a school. They get a FREE college education, FREE living expenses, FREE food on campus, FREE books, FREE class materials, FREE tutoring, and the absolute first crack at scheduling. As an out-of-state student at Alabama, my total costs for a year of school were probably $20,000 (including tuition, books, materials, living expenses, etc.); over 4.5 years in school, that's easily $90,000 or more...I'd say that's a pretty hefty compensation, wouldn't you?!

So, a refresher: I believe that student-athletes do get a fair amount of compensation for playing a sport for a school-they get lots of free stuff (don't forget about the clothes and shoes!!) that the rest of us struggle to pay for. Another point brought up in the REAL Sports special was that there should be an incentive for the athletes to stay in school and finish their educations, and that many of them aren't really getting an education while they are at school. WHO'S FAULT IS THAT?!?! It bugs the crap out of me that student-athletes complain that they "don't really get an education at school", and that they just "aren't prepared" for dealing with the pressures of college and playing sports at the same time; I say, cry me a river and DEAL WITH IT! I'm pretty sure no one was really fully prepared for what college would be like, and to add the pressures of athletics on top of that...I struggled a bit, but eventually figured it out and found a nice happy medium (without free tutoring and a cupcake class schedule, I might add) and did well in both school and racquetball throughout college. If you're not taking advantage of the free education you're getting, then that's your own fault; I know I did, because I'm not an IDIOT thinking that my sport is going to be my ticket to the rest of my life-I'm probably going to need a back up plan! As Charlie Sheen would say, "Duh!"

Anyway, here is my final point: I absolutely draw the line at royalties earned by the school and/or the NCAA from an athlete's image. The school and the NCAA absolutely should NOT be able to sell a student's image and make money from that; if they do, then the student should get a cut of that money. It is illegal (I think) to use another person's image without getting their permission or paying them for it, and the same should apply to student-athletes at a school. The special did make a point that the NCAA requires the students to sign a clause saying that their image can be used "forever and throughout the universe", and that's crap.

Let's face it, the whole system of the NCAA and college sports is messed up, and I think it all needs to be revamped because it's obviously not working. But to say that the students are not compensated at all is RIDICULOUS and INSANE-if you don't take advantage of the considerable compensation that you get, it's your own fault.

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Life Catch Up Commencing in 3...2...1...

I have been a bad blogger. Nay, a HORRIBLE blogger. My last post was 5 months ago, exactly...and yeah, tons of stuff has happened since then. So let's catch up quickly, shall we?!

First of all, Top 3 Thursday is apparently no more. Not that you would know that, since I haven't updated my blog in awhile, but I also wasn't keen to keep participating since I wasn't really able to topic was you "Top 3 Apps"...I don't have a smartphone, apps for me. Anyway, auf wiedersehen Top 3 Thursday.

Next, the day after my last post, I headed down to New Orleans for the WPRO Pro World Championships. My friend Danielle came with me, and let me just say that it was one of my favorite tournaments EVER!! The drive from Tuscaloosa to New Orleans is not bad, about 4 hours, but Danielle and I had just finished finals and so the trip had an extra air of fun to it!! Basically, Danielle and her boyfriend Chris hung out with me at the tournament, and while I was busy recovering between matches they explored the French Quarter...sidenote: That is the most disappointing thing about all the tournaments I go to; I hardly ever get to actually SEE all of the places that I go to. If I have time to go see things in every city, that generally means that I'm out of the tournament, and let's face it that's just not a good thing!! Time back in. I got to the semifinals in New Orleans, which is the first time I have ever been in the semifinals of a major tournament...It. Was. AWESOME. I can't even begin to describe how excited I was at that tournament-super emotional. I also gambled for the first time in my life; Danielle, Chris, ad I went to Harrah's on both Friday and Saturday nights. Danielle and I had never gambled before, so we stuck to the video-game blackjack; the first night we met some nice older gentlemen who were willing to help us learn the rules and strategies of the game. When we went back on Saturday night, we got yelled at for "not helping the table"...mind you, this was ELECTRONIC blackjack, but whatever. Anyway, Sunday came and we got some beignets on the way out of town; not Cafe du Monde, but still delicious!

Literally four days later I moved up to Memphis. This story in a nutshell: I was supposed to get my gradship back for a second year at Alabama, but they ended up deciding to go with someone else at the last minute, so I could either move back to Ohio, or take the opportunity to move to a new city and truly be on my own; I chose the second option. I found myself a roommate (thanks Mal!), my parents drove down to Tuscaloosa to help me move and brought me furniture, and we headed up to Memphis. Also, a big shout out to Nate for letting me stay with him while we were waiting to move into our apartment. And let me just tell you that those first two months were pretty much the scariest months of my life. I moved up to Memphis without a job, with no job prospects, maybe three months worth of living expenses...super scary. And don't you know it: I am huge believer of things come in to your life when you least expect/need them to...I finally found an AMAZING job in hospitality that I am still in love with three months later! More on this in a later post.

That's about it for now; things are literally better than they may have ever been in my life. I am working at a fantastic job, I make more than enough money to live on, I have fantastic friends (both here in Memphis and everywhere else), I still get to play as much racquetball as I want...yes, life is GOOD!! Upcoming posts: more about my new job, the upcoming WPRO season, re-learning German, the 100 Hearts challenge, and things you may not know about staying at a hotel but definitely should. Adieu!


Thursday, May 13, 2010

Top 3 Thursday: Let's BOOK IT!!

Look it: it's Thursday, and I'm posting my Top 3 Thursday topic on time! YAY for me!! And I mean really...this week will be my most difficult topic yet. Books? Only 3? Pleeeaaaasseee...that's nigh impossible for me. Let me break it down for ya-my grandma was a librarian...a few of her sisters were parents both read a lot...I LOVE reading...basically, it's impossible to only pick three books. So I've picked a few categories, and will go from there. Ready, set, READ!


This is the direction we were supposed to go in this week. But well, see here's the thing with reading regular books while I'm in school...I don't do it. Not because I don't want to, but because if I read regular books while I have reading to do for class, I will never get the reading done for class. Hence: I don't read for fun when class is in session. I have managed to read three books since January though, and how perfect is this: I've only read three! So here they are:

This was a PHE-NOMENAL book!! If ever you wanted to know what it's like as a touring professional for a sport, and I mean the bare bones of everything it's like: read this book. I found that I could draw a few parallels between Andre as pro tennis player and myself as a pro racquetball player, but the most striking was this: we both love/hate our sports. Did you know that, that Andre hated tennis?! Me neither! But I "hate" racquetball, too: I hate that it takes up so much time and effort to try and be at the top of the sport (especially when I make next to no money at it); I hate that it puts such a strain on my relationships, be them friendships, dating, or with family, very few of whom truly get what being so dedicated to something is really all about; but most of all I hate the fact that I can't walk away from it. Playing racquetball is such a huge part of who I am and what I do, that there is absolutely no way I will willingly walk away from playing. Believe me, I've tried. More than once. Can't do it. So whoever ends up stuck with me ends up stuck with racquetball, too.

This book was also fantastic. I read it in two days, which is pretty swift for a book of over 500 pages, even for me. In fact, ALL of Dan Brown's books are fantastic...all 5 of them. Yes, he has written more than just "The Da Vinci Code" and "Angels and Demons" fact, his best book (IMO) is called "Deception Point". Robert Langdon is one of my favorite literary characters, but "Deception Point" is where it's at-READ IT!!
I honestly didn't know what to think about this book...I watched this match live on TV-all 8 long hours of it. At that point, I was working the third shift at the hotel, and I woke up/stayed up just to watch this match because I knew it would be amazing. And I was pooped at work that night, but it was SO worth it. I didn't know what to think of the book because I thought, "There's no way a BOOK could live up to how amazing the actual match was"...but I was wrong. The book dives more into the background of the match, things that not even avid tennis followers like myself knew, and put them in context with the match. Needless to say, this is a fantastic book-and I wholeheartedly believe that the sequel should be written about the Federer/Roddick final match that took place in last year's Wimbledon final.

CATEGORY 2: THE THREE BEST BOOK SERIES a tough one. And if you know me at all, you may be surprised by my picks.

#1: The Inheritance Trilogy, by Christopher Paolini. Chances are, you have NO idea what this trilogy is about. You may not even have seen the movie that is loosely (and I use that term sarcastically-don't even get me started on all the inconsistencies) based on the first book in the series...Eragon? Ring a bell? If not, don't worry-the movie was...well, horrible would be an understatement. As a movie, supposedly it was fine (says my mom, who again is so awesome that she went with me to see the movie on her birthday because I wanted to see it), but as a reader of the book, the movie sucked. The books, however, are WONDERFUL! So detailed, kinda long, but soooo good! The books in the series are: Eragon, Eldest, and then Brisingr. There is a fourth one coming out, but I have no idea what it will be called or when it is due. Check these books out though, they're awesome.

#2: The Harry Potter books, by J.K. Rowling. I mean honestly, how could I leave these books off of my list?! They. Are. BRILLIANT. And I don't mean that in a British way-I mean J.K. Rowling is a genius. I'm not going to say too much about these books-they are too much of a cultural phenomenon for you not to know what's going on, but let me say this: don't knock them just because they're "children's books". Good books are good books, regardless of who they are written for, so enjoy.

#3: The His Dark Materials series, by Philip Pullman. Again, chances are that you have no idea that this trilogy even existed. But (unfortunately), you may be dimly aware of the movie that was made based on the first book in the series; and again, don't even get me started on the inconsistencies between the book and the movie that make it nearly impossible to make the second movie and have it even remotely stay true to the books. There is too much going on in the series to explain what it's about, but all you need to know is that the books are extremely entertaining, and are excellent reads. The books in this series are as follows: The Golden Compass, The Subtle Knife, The Amber Spyglass.

I have, as you may have noticed, left the Twilight books off of my list of the best series. That is because...shocker alert...I don't think the books are well-written. Not even a little bit. But I do love the story lines, and the characters are fantastic, and I am obviously invested in the story (although I came a little late to the party), so I would still recommend the books to anyone looking for something fun to read.

*A special note about these books: all four of these series have caused outcries with parents that they are unsuitable reading for children. In the case of all of these series, a large part of that outcry has to with the supernatural nature of the books. But my point is this: they're BOOKS-and FICTION books at that!! Let's not make more of it than necessary; for example, many people objected to The Golden Compass because it talks about killing God...but newsflash, if you had actually read the books, you would know that #1: no it doesn't, not even a little bit, and #2: that particular misunderstood part of the series doesn't even occur until the final book in the series. So what I'm saying is this: these books may not be suitable for your 11 year old child to read-so don't let them read them! But they are fantastic (FICTION!) books, so please don't keep your child from reading them-it's so difficult to get kids to read books these days, that it is my firm belief that they should be allowed to read anything that is age-appropriate for them.


This category took me a very long time to narrow down, but here they are; I've read all of these books multiple times, and would love to discuss them with you at any time.
I know that this is a super long post, but I did warn you at the beginning that it would be a long one. I leave you with this final comment: Don't ever, ever, EVER read Wicked. It's quite possibly the worst book ever written. Haven't seen the musical, but the book is horrid. I have never not finished a book, but that one...almost didn't make it. It's that bad. But don't let that stop you-BOOK IT!!


Saturday, May 8, 2010

What's the name of this thing?? Top 3 whenever-I-get-around-to-it-day?! Ooops.

Yes, yes, I know, I know-for the second week in a row, I have not only failed to do my Top 3 Thursday topic on an actual Thursday, but I have also failed to do it on Friday...So let's get to it, shall we?! Favorite things to do outdoors, ready...GO!

#1: Skiing/playing in the snow. I am not a good skier. And really the only skiing that I've done is at Perfect North in Indiana, which is basically fake skiing (because it's Indiana, duh-it's like the queen of flat country), and I am what my grandparents call a dangerous skier because I don't so much do the turning, I'm more of a go straight down the hill as fast as I can so you should probably just get out of my way type of girl, but hey! I loved skiing. I'd also really love to try snowboarding someday, but I have a feeling I will be falling down a lot on the first run. I also like playing in the snow. Yes, I'm almost 25, but I love big snows, and I love running outside and jumping in the snow, and having snowball fights, and making snow angels, and getting absolutely FREEZING cold, then going inside to warm up with some nice hot chocolate. That's a perfect day right there! That's the one thing I don't like about living in the South now-no snow. Although it is MUCH easier to get a snow day down here...January 7, 2010, anyone?! It was supposed to snow a few inches, so they closed all the schools, and what did it do?? It RAINED. Come on, now! Suck it up.

#2: Swimming/being in some body of water. This is a fairly broad category. I love being in the ocean (although I am getting more and more scared of the ocean these days-I'm like Sara, it's starting to make me really uncomfortable that I can't see my feet). I love being at the beach. I love playing sand volleyball. I also am just as partial to spending the day at the pool. Some of my favorite memories are the days that all of my friends from college and I would meet up at the Bent Tree pool, and just drink all day, and laze around in the floats...those were some good times. Finally, I also love, love, LOVED City Cafe/Cliffs Fridays. Again, just going to City Cafe for lunch and eating as much food as possible, then jumping off the Cliffs and hoping that you didn't sink to the bottom of the river because you ate way too much food at lunch. Jumping off the Cliffs was scary-the water looks REALLY far away-but I loved every minute of it.

#3: Running outside. I love running. I also hate/despise running. So of course, I love to hate running. But let me break it down for ya-I hate running (it's really hard!), but I know that it's good for my racquetball game, plus I get a huge sense of accomplishment coming in from a run, just knowing that I did something that I hate doing. But what do I hate even more than running: running on a track. Even worse: running on a treadmill. YUCK. You don't go anywhere! How boring. So if I HAVE to run, then it must be outside. I don't really even mind running in the rain, sometimes it's nice...but I do secretly love running outside.

So that's it for this edition of Top 3...whatever day. I also love sitting outside on a porch and drinking sweet tea while I'm reading a good book, but that's a whole other topic/post on it's own. Cheers y'all!!


Friday, April 30, 2010

"What Part of 'Top 3 THURSDAY' Didn't You Understand?!?!"

That title is a direct quote from someone...I know, I know: it's no longer Thursday, it's no longer even Friday, and this is the "Top 3 Thursday" topic, but sugarrayleonard I've been busy!! It's "Dead Week" at school, I've been trying to catch up on the infinitesimal amount of sleep that I've gotten this week, and, most importantly: my bestie from high school got in to town on Thursday!! Needless to say (though apparently I do need to say it), I've had other stuff going on! But without further ado, let's get right down to the nitty gritty: my top 3 things on my Bucket List.

#1. I want to live on my own. I had roommates in college. I have lived at home, as an adult. I have moved out of my house permanently, and thus am out on my own...with a roommate. But I want to live ON MY OWN. No roommates, no parents, no kids-just ME. I love coming home and having Alex to talk to if I want, but I want to know what it is like to live 100% by myself. Can I do it? Will I like it? Probably not for a long time, a year would probably be sufficient, but it is definitely something I want to do. Not sure why...but it's up there on the Bucket List.

#2. I want to have a child. I LOVED spending two whole days with my niece Elizabeth over Christmas. It was so much fun drawing with her, and playing blocks with her, and watching her play "Jingle Bells" with my keys, and watching her pick out her lunch, and watching her feed herself chicken nuggets, and just watching her be her own person in general. Alex and I were recently at Jason's Deli for lunch, where we saw two VERY cute twins, and she said something like, "I want to have a baby! Actually, I want to have a baby to play with for awhile and then give it back." I quickly reminded her that they have a name for something like that: babysitting. And babysitting is fun. And when Elizabeth was first born and she cried a lot, it was great to be able to hand her back to Kim. But at some point, I want to have a child of my own.

#3. I want to do the "Tour de Majors". I just made that up. And so what is the "Tour de Majors" you might ask?? It would be this: Preferably in one year (although that particular part of this Bucket List item is not necessary), I would like to travel to and watch all four of the tennis majors: the Australian Open, the French Open (this one is my least favorite), Wimbledon (seats on Centre Court?! YES PLEASE!!), and the US Open (if Andy Roddick wins another major here, and I am at that US Open, that would just be icing on the cake-I was SO MAD that I missed watching him win his only major...stupid racquetball tournament in Rosarito Beach). I love tennis, and I think it would be infinitely more exciting to be there for the actual tournament, and honestly if you're going to travel to some sort of event, why not make it the creme de la creme?! If I could meet Andre Agassi at some point during this tour, that would be fantastic, too!!

Honorable Mention: To cook with Rachael Ray and/or Paula Deen. Does this one really need an explanation? I don't think so!


Sunday, April 25, 2010


It's that time again-the end of the racquetball season. Only two tournaments left for me this season, and I'm not sure they could be bigger/more important. Approximately 10 days from now I will be heading to New Orleans for the WPRO Pro World Championships, and then I will be off to Houston about 2.5 weeks later for the National Singles Championships, where a good showing could garner me a trip to Korea for the World Championships...!! An update on the season so far:

The first half of the season was pretty up and down-no outstanding results, no super disappointing results, just showing up and playing, collecting my check and going home. That all changed on February 1, 2010. I decided, after a tournament in Cincinnati, to perform an experiment. I have never been very good at really preparing for tournaments when it comes to making a training schedule and then sticking to it, but I wanted to see what would happen if I actually made out a schedule and stuck to it for a month. I started on 2/1/10 because it was the first of the month, it was a Monday, and the next tournament was about 6 weeks away-plenty of time to work toward the tournament. Anyway, I stuck to the training schedule, bought myself a present for doing so, had a great draw to make some noise...and tanked it. I played HORRIBLY at the next tournament and wasted what I considered a golden opportunity. Very disappointed, I just went back home and worked even harder, which is where York, PA comes in.

Two weeks ago, I went to York, PA for a WPRO stop, and made it to my first semi-final in over 6 years-WOOHOO!!! Let me break it down for you: Friday night, in the round of 16, I played Maiko Sato, a very talented player from Japan. Maiko is a quiet lady, with a very good touch game (which generally frustrates me, since I like to hit the crap out of the ball). I had only played Maiko once before, and she took me to four games before I could win the match. Instead of worrying about wasting another opportunity, I went in to that match extremely focused and ended up winning 11-6, 11-1, 11-1. I call that "playing with the fear"-the fear that you will waste something that you have worked so hard for. I was VERY pleased with that result, as I played extremely well. Next up was Jo Shattuck, another very talented player from Denver, who hits that ball a bit harder but just gets to every single ball, which puts a lot of pressure on her opponents to put the ball away (and we usually end up making TONS of mistakes because of it). I came out absolutely CON FUEGO and won the first game 11-0. If you didn't know, that is virtually unheard of at this level-I was playing that well. Jo stormed back and took the next two games 11-6, 11-2...she started playing unbelievably well and there wasn't a whole lot I could do to stop her momentum. I went in to the fourth game furious that I had put in so much work (again) and was about to squander another opportunity to get to the semis (AGAIN!), and won the fourth game 11-1. We headed in to the fifth and final game, where Jo took a 5-0 lead. I decided that I had had enough of that, and went on to win the fifth game (and the match) at 11-6; again, "playing with the fear"-it's not always a bad thing! Later that night, I took on Paola Longoria from Mexico, the #1 player in the world right now. She certainly showed me why she is the best in the world and won in three games, 11-3, 11-9, 11-5. There was no way that I could be disappointed in that result, as I had played so well all weekend and had finally made it back to the semis.

Now, a recap of this weekend's tournament in Stockton, CA. Friday night I played Aubrey O' Brien in the round of 16-another super talented player from California, and she's only 18! Gah, I feel old just thinking about it. Anyway, Aubrey took the first two games at 4 and 0...I was completely floored and had no idea what to do to try and get back in to the match. She went up 5-0 in the third game before something clicked and I decided to try something new. Zach Morris timeout: I LOVE tennis, and Andre Agassi is one of my favorite players ever, and I remembered him saying this a few years ago at the U.S. Open: "Find a way to win, even when nothing is working." (or something like that)...time back in. That thought just popped in to my head, and I decided to just focus on what I was good and what worked within my game-that includes drive serving. It worked, I was able to keep Aubrey off-balance, and I came back to win the next two games to send the match into a tiebreaker. The fifth game was absolutely back and forth, with neither of us leading by more than a few points, until I was able to pull out the win with a score of 11-8 in the fifth game. The positives about that match with Aubrey: 1. At the end of the match, I did not feel tired or winded at all. This is a HUGE improvement for me, as conditioning has never been one of my strong suits. 2. I have never been considered a very mentally tough player, and yet I was able to come back, stay focused, and win a match that, according to the first half, I clearly should have lost. This. Is. HUGE. Score one for me! Quarterfinals had me matched up against Samantha Salas, another tough player from Mexico, and probably my own personal demon. For reasons that I am well aware of (and won't say publicly), I have had a huge mental block against her and usually have to spend atleast a game getting over that block...but let me tell you, this problem is no more!! In yet another mental toughness leap (two in one weekend-how amazing!), I figured out how to focus solely on the ball and not at all on who I am playing. Now, one time does not a habit make, but it is a huge step in the right direction. Overall, a fantastic weekend for me as I am heading into the end of the season playing very, very well, and feeling like I'm in great shape.

According to the unofficial rankings (that I figured out in my head, so I could be wrong), I will be #5 on the WPRO tour before New Orleans, and could finish the season at #4, although that would take a near miracle. Then it's on to Houston Memorial Day weekend to try and earn a spot on the US National Team again, and a trip to Korea for the World Championships (how awesome would that be as a 25th birthday present?!). There is so much going on between now and then (mostly the end of the school year and all the stress that comes with final projects and final tests) that it stresses me out just thinking about how much I have to do, but that's one of the things that I love most about racquetball: the ability to step on the court and leave everything else outside-the only thing that matters at that exact moment is the ball and what you do with it. So until New Orleans (and the next Top 3 Thursday), I say ADIEU!! And keep 'em rolling.


Thursday, April 22, 2010

It’s that time again-TOP 3 THURSDAY!! This week: pet peeves. This is where all of my little quirks are going to come out, in no particular order, so please continue to be my friend after this if we are already friends, and if we aren’t…don’t judge my too harshly!

1. ALPHABETICAL ORDER. I absolutely hate it when my things are out of order. All of my CDs and movies HAVE to be in alphabetical order…and I can’t emphasize the “have to” part enough; I’m not kidding, even a little bit. My movies are all in alphabetical order by movie name, and then if there are a bunch of movies in a series, such as my Harry Potter movies and my Twilight movies, they are in order of the series within their alphabetical place (“Twilight” and “New Moon” are together because they are part of a series). I also can’t stand it when one of my movies is missing from my collection for a long time; I lent a friend my copy of “The Hangover” in January, and just got it back this past Saturday night…that’s a space of 3 months…it’s designated space between “Grease” and “Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone” mocked me with it’s absence every time I looked at my DVD collection. Also, my CDs are all in alphabetical order by performer or group, and the mixed CDs that I still have from when that was the cool thing to do are grouped by the type of music on the CD, THEN alphabetically. My books are also in alphabetical order by author, and in order of release (i.e. the Dan Brown books, although the three books featuring Robert Langdon are in order of their “series”) or the series order (again, the Harry Potter or Twilight books) within the author classification. But you might wonder: what about individual books that have common subjects, but do not share the same author and aren’t in a series? Those books are simply grouped by subject. For instance, the tennis books that I have ( Breaking Back by James Blake, Open by Andre Agassi, and Strokes of Genius: Federer, Nadal, and the Greatest Match Ever Played are all together on my bookshelf. This system might seem a little excessive, but I know exactly where my CDs/books/movies are at all times, and whether or not something is missing. Do you??

2. PEOPLE READING OVER MY SHOULDER. I HATE it when people do this. And this mostly applies to random people who come up behind me to read over my shoulder, not when I’m pointing something out to someone else. Please don’t do this-end of story.

3. SPORTS TEAM FANS. This is a bit of a soapbox pet peeve of mine. I am all for people being fans of sports teams…it’s entirely healthy to believe in something bigger than you, that you have absolutely no control over. I do NOT believe, however, that it is okay for you to take that loyalty too far. Let’s take, for instance, Crimson Tide fans. I did my undergraduate work at The University of Alabama, and became a Tide fan because I went to school there. I grew up in Ohio, where you were either a Michigan fan or a fan of THE Ohio State (the ALL CAPS is to indicate sarcasm, FYI), and let’s face it: in Centerville, where I grew up, you cheered for the Buckeyes…I was not really a fan of either-though I was very excited for OSU to win the National Championship against Miami in 2003. Anyway, my point is: I am a Crimson Tide fan, and I prefer that the Buckeyes win, but I do not heckle Tennessee fans, or Florida fans, or Michigan fans, etc. And it’s equally as ridiculous for those fans to heckle me-nothing wrong with friendly trash-talking, but there’s no reason for heckling, or thinking I’m stupid because I cheer for those teams. But the thing that annoys me even more than that: fans thinking that they have anything at all do with their team’s success. I have nothing against traditions or superstitions-as an athlete, I have a list a mile long that I adhere to when I’m competing that would probably make you think I was crazy, but here’s the difference: I am actually the one competing when these superstitions are put in to play. Example: I have outfits that I wear in a certain order at tournaments, and it generally stays the same until something goes wrong and the outfit has to be demoted to the bottom of the pile. The fact that you as a football fan have to wear the same shirt or hat or eat the same foods every game day so that your team will win is ridiculous-you have NOTHING at all to do with how the team performs on the field. As an athlete, it’s slightly less ridiculous-does wearing my outfits in the same order have any real effect on my play? Not at all, but I THINK that it does, which affects my mental state, which affects my level of play…are you getting the point? The difference between my superstitions as an athlete and yours as a fan are on a different level-you have absolutely no influence on the outcome of a game, while my mental processes have a huge influence on the outcome of my match. So continue to cheer on your team, but please do not think that if for some reason you can’t wear your lucky shirt, your team is going to lose.

HONORABLE MENTION: People (this applies to both guys and girls) thinking that girls can’t do certain things simply because they are girls. I don’t want to get into a huge political debate, but here’s my opinion on the subject: I (as a girl) may not, in fact, be able to do certain things that guys can do, but DO NOT tell me that I can’t-let me try it and see whether or not I can. If I can’t, I will be the first person to admit it. But if I can, then you just look ridiculous for telling me that I can’t. I feel the same way Demi Moore did in “G.I. Jane”-don’t give me the steps to get over the wall until I prove to you that I need them.